Picking Up Women – How You Can Eliminate 96% Of Rejection

Why don’t you approach every beautiful woman you see? Because the fear that she may reject and humiliate you, often leaves you feeling paralyzed.

Its ok, you are not alone. Every man experiences this fear. And did you know women get scared, nervous, sweaty palms, and draw mental blanks when they are approached by the opposite sex? They are just like us and experience very similar feelings of anxiety.

The good news is that by using a couple easy tools you can eliminate up to 96% of the possibility of humiliation. This tool does not always lead to a successful closing; however it will determine if she will be receptive to your approach or not.

I call it the smile test and this is how it works;

You see the beautiful girl and eventually you exchange eye contact. When your eyes meet, you genuinely and sincerely smile at her. If she returns your smile she is going to receptive to you initiating a conversation.

This is for a few reasons:

1. Smiling is the most basic form of flirting and best of all you dont have to say a single word.

2. If you smile at her, you are showing you are confident and assertive. You saw an attractive girl and you smiled at her.

3. Very few other men will just smile at a strange girl. This will make you unique and different from every other guy she could be dating.

4. Lastly, you dont expect women with boyfriends to be smiling at strange men because it is flirting. Thus you have a much higher likelihood that she will be single and available.

If you think back about some of the prettiest women that you have seen and wish you had talked too, likely one of these girls smiled at you. When women smile they are much more attractive. The same is true for men.

In addition when you do this, she will see you as much more approachable, confident, outgoing, and better looking. If you are nervous about rejection an easy step to get things started is to just smile at the women you find attractive.

You dont have to talk to them but notice how many return your smile. It feels really good to have good looking girls smile at you.

Picking Up Women – Eliminate 96% Of Rejection

Why don’t you approach every beautiful woman you see? Because the fear that she may reject and humiliate you, often leaves you feeling paralyzed.

Its ok, you are not alone. Every man experiences this fear. And did you know women get scared, nervous, sweaty palms, and draw mental blanks when they are approached by the opposite sex? They are just like us and experience very similar feelings of anxiety.

The good news is that by using a couple easy tools you can eliminate up to 96% of the possibility of humiliation. This tool does not always lead to a successful closing; however it will determine if she will be receptive to your approach or not.

I call it the smile test and this is how it works;

You see the beautiful girl and eventually you exchange eye contact. When your eyes meet, you genuinely and sincerely smile at her. If she returns your smile she is going to receptive to you initiating a conversation.

This is for a few reasons:

1. Smiling is the most basic form of flirting and best of all you dont have to say a single word.

2. If you smile at her, you are showing you are confident and assertive. You saw an attractive girl and you smiled at her.

3. Very few other men will just smile at a strange girl. This will make you unique and different from every other guy she could be dating.

4. Lastly, you dont expect women with boyfriends to be smiling at strange men because it is flirting. Thus you have a much higher likelihood that she will be single and available.

If you think back about some of the prettiest women that you have seen and wish you had talked too, likely one of these girls smiled at you. When women smile they are much more attractive. The same is true for men.

In addition when you do this, she will see you as much more approachable, confident, outgoing, and better looking. If you are nervous about rejection an easy step to get things started is to just smile at the women you find attractive.

You dont have to talk to them but notice how many return your smile. It feels really good to have good looking girls smile at you.

How To Pick Up Women – Don’t Blow Your Chance

One of the common ways men blow their chances with women is through negative self talk.

How do you see yourself?

How do you speak to yourself?

And what are you saying?

In other words due to a lack of self confidence many guys are creating barriers to success. This negative self talk causes you to be insecure and not confident. Women are not attracted to these qualities.

Instead you must be the man! You must tell yourself that you posses every quality that a good woman is looking for. Furthermore you don’t need a woman that doesn’t see this.

I can not stress this enough, by talking positively to yourself and about yourself it is a matter of time before you believe it. Just like every one around you already thinks how great of a person you are!

You just have to work or displaying these qualities to women. You are not uncommon. Very, very, very few men can actually attract women the way they want.

Even professional athletes, rich men, movie stars, … these guys can still sleep with a lot of women, however they are often not women that you would want to sleep with once you got to know them.

If you need to, it can help to create a list of positive qualities about yourself. Recite it and compliment yourself.

When you look good for work or school and tell yourself (at least silently). By doing this you will not only believe the truth and have a more accurate view of yourself, but your confidence will grow too. And we have all heard women say “How attracted they were to a guy because he was confident.”

This goes back to cave men days when women would choose men based on survival. The most confident guy is usually the strongest, fittest guy or in other words the best mate for the woman.

How To Talk With Girls

When you are talking to women there is nothing worse than nervous anxiety. It happens when you run out of things to say.

Your hands start to sweat, and you can not think a single coherent thought or topic of conversation. Frequently this is where you put your foot in your mouth and end up humiliating yourself.

However just by taking a few easy steps you can eliminate most of these feelings.

Step 1 – Prepare your conversation topics

This means think about what you are going to talk about before you approach. For example ask her where she is from?

Did she grow up there? Does her family live there? Does she come from a big family? Brothers and sisters?

Or talk about politics. Did she vote for Obama? What does she think of the stimulus package? Auto bailout?

These are just a few examples. The point is take a few moments and prepare a couple conversation topics. It will help tremendously.

I suggest three topics. As you get more comfortable you will not need to prepare as much. However this really helps to eliminate that nervous anxiety when you fun out of things to say.

Also it will make you appear less nervous. If you appear less nervous you are seen as self assured or confident. This will help her feel more comfortable and attracted to you.

Step 2 – Mantras

Create a couple mental mantras. You should use these before, during, and after your approaches.

For example, I always tell myself “she is just as nervous as you.” This is true!

The next time you are fighting with yourself about approaching or not tell yourself she is just as nervous as you. It will help to make you feel more comfortable. Just like men women get nervous too.

Another good one is “Act As if.” This means act as if you are the man. Act like she should be lucky you are talking to her.

Specifically use this to help give off that elusive confidence, that women are so attracted to. The truth is she is lucky because you are a good quality guy.

It’s not like you want to take her home and beat her up! Instead you just want to get to know her and see how things go. Of course, be careful you don’t go to far and been seen as arrogant.

Last one is “Don’t chase her just replace her.” Thankfully there are a lot of women in the world.

If things don’t work out with one, who cares? There are plenty more, don’t let yourself get down about one woman.